Honestly, pinky wouldn't get this much shit from guys like you if she just pretended to be a guy and went along with it.
When people like you see a girl in the server you desperately try to break out of the "guys worshipping gamer girls" mold,
And the way you manage to do that is by acting like an overt dick.
Sure a joke on her regard from time to time is fine, but dedicating your whole time on the server to nagging her is a bit much isn't it?
She's just trying to play some games with her bf (or whatever the fuck is going on with those two, idk), and she comes across with guys like you who are desperately trying to be different from the norm, not really for the grooming's sake, but to validate your own pathetic existence through being "a guy who gives no fucks".