Time has come..

[Bulletwhisper]

5 years ago (14/15 years old)  i suddenly had bad news my father passed away.......  now its 2015   Today i received a  phone call we got bad news your mother (cancer) metastasized now its only waiting till her heart stop beating might be in few days or a week..  to much moisture in her body...   time goes to FAST.....

Anyone who read this please get of your butt and spent quality time with your brother mother sisters and ofcourse your daddy as much as you can..

Wish us luck Cheers Everyone!

['PL']

My condolences for your loss whisperer, I hope you hold it 

[Ray]

Really sorry to hear this my friend...
Stay strong, they must be proud of you.

[bucK]

im sorry to hear this brother . i lost my mother too last year and i know how hard it is
and its even harder on you brother . take care of your mother and never lose hope
and if you need anything just tell me . your brother BucKK

[Red Mist]

Really sorry to hear this mate.

[SilverQuick]

Stay strong whisper no matter what happens.

[Koray]

I am pushed away and not taken care of by my parents most of my life due to their mental illnesses but they are not ready/mature enough to realise it's ruining other people such as me and actually seek help for it. Which has put me in a very depressing and suicidal childhood, still continuing right now and has definitely left me some emotional scars up to the point at which I can barely love someone or care about someone, or feel loved or feel like someone cares about me, cause my thoughts screw me over telling me it's not real anyway and it that it would just end up in troubles which I would then have to take care of.
It's sad to see someone like me who could've been so much more than what he is right now because of not getting the chance to get somewhere.

I'm in contact with many foundations that try to get me out of this situation but even they told me this is probably the worst case they've ever seen...

But you know what? In a few months (if not just a few weeks!) it's all going to be a little better. After all these years of mental abuse, having parents that tell you you're not loved, supposed to be and that you're going to fail in life it's still going to be alright. All you have to do is make sure you make it, yourself, you should care about yourself and not about the people that ruin(ed) you. It'll get you nowhere.
A few weeks ago I decided to seek help and try to get everything set down and it already looks like I'll be able to live life somewhere else and be able to take care of myself.

I'll be so thankful to be able to take care of myself. Finally move on in life and get somewhere

Like Bulletwhisper says, be graceful of having someone to love and take care of, or having someone that loves you and takes care of you, be graceful for everything you have
even the tiny details that you think are normal to have. Some people might not have these and would've loved it, don't miss the sun when it starts to snow


-Duke 

But hey, I love you man! And we'll stay friends, even if its over the internet :3!

Anyhow, keep your head up lad, life comes and life goes, that's what's ment to happen and we have to live with it.

Goodluck tho.

[Fisu]

I'm sorry for what happend!

In my culture, I am "Forced" to take care of my parents, although why should people call it force?

- When I was young, I didnt know how to talk, walk, eat etc. My parents tought me, they always were here for me!

- Now why should I not help them with the current technoligy? Why not help them when they can't walk, read properly?

Very nice words from you, saying "Spent as much time as you can", that's very true, I mean you can never know.. Your parents must be proud mate