Author Topic: Respect (Read 799 times)

Renan · « **on:** December 18, 2011, 07:06:40 pm »

Hi Guys,

Hope you are all well.

Today i would like to speak about respect.

To begin with, lets talk about fun. Ambrosia is fun, our servers are fun. There are two main reasons to why we join a CS server, in this case, Ambrosia. One, for the wish to play Counter Strike and the other, for the wish to have fun, with the players.

Most of the ambrosia's members due to know each other and therefore do have quite a fun time over our servers. Which is BRILLANT. That is for sure one thing we ALL will like you ALL to have always.

However, having fun with players, is only fun when you are both laughing and having fun of it.

For instance, i come into to a server and:

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Renan: Hi Deniz, you dick sucker.
Deniz: Hi Renan, you motherfucker.
Renan: hahaha.
Deniz: hahaha.

Lovely, that is both of us having fun. However, not all players are the same, and therefore that is why i am posting this thread. Having fun with players is acceptable, Having fun disrespecting another player, is bullying. That is unacceptable and therefore will be punishment for it.

For example:

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Renan: Hi Deniz, you dick sucker.
Deniz: I did not like what you said, that was disrespectful.
Renan: Oh shut up you motherfucker.

Under the above scenario, Renan should be punished for disrespecting another player, as Deniz did not have the same fun i was having, and so this is bullying. Which is unacceptable.

Please remember, that we will always want you to have fun, however do have fun with respect. Otherwise it is considered to be bullying, AND WE ARE AGAINST IT and so you shall be punished for it.

Admins: If you see lack of respect going on the server, and one of both sides do feel damaged/bullied by the other person, you are to punish the bully.
Players: If you feel you are being bullied, do report to the admin online, if the admin do not take any actions, feel free to report on our forums and we'll take care of.

Hope you all understand the message.

Thank you, Renan.

Sight · « **Reply #1 on:** December 18, 2011, 07:08:07 pm »

please teach some of this to arne.

our conversations like the first example xD

Burningsoul · « **Reply #2 on:** December 18, 2011, 08:32:45 pm »

Hmm arne needs to study a lot deniz we know it;) next one is you

you motherfer

sMiT · « **Reply #3 on:** December 18, 2011, 10:04:01 pm »

I think we need to pay special attention to the ones that provoke in the 1st place. Some people do this to get a reaction..and then complain...

Renan · « **Reply #4 on:** December 18, 2011, 10:45:00 pm »

Its all about reporting smitten.

Cersei · « **Reply #5 on:** December 19, 2011, 07:13:49 am »

Agree with Smit. Renan you can not report when there is nothing there, meaning no flame, but some people do not need to flame to drive you nuts and provoke you, but I definitely agree with Renan about the respect, most important thing is to remember to respect ourselves and don't stoop down lower levels. This is gaming servers and we all know, that we have lots of teenagers playing and tempers are hot, quick to anger, but following basic respect rules is not as hard. Renan made a good example, when someone does not find it funny just stop.
I know at least 2 people who will laugh at me talking about respect again, but I really believe it is one of the most important keys to any relationship.

Ed · « **Reply #6 on:** December 19, 2011, 07:23:32 am »

I agree with Smit, this is not about reporting, everyone could go everyday and report every single person and then sadly there would be a lot of bans. Game is for fun and if someone is too sensitive I am sorry, but they shouldn't be playing the mod then! I mostly agree with you Renan about disrespecting, insulting or being racist, it should not occur, but it happens and mostly it happens because of being provoked. I know a lot of good guys who never did swore or being insulting, but some people got their ways.

I respect everyone equally I might have found some things funny which may not be funny to others, but this is a game community there will always be someone left out, besides it happens a lot in life and no one should be blamed. Different people different ways of thinking.
Just saw Cerseis reply.
As Cersei said, Respect is most important key for any good relationship, but if someone has not respected me I still tend to keep it polite as respecting them even if they don't respect me. It also goes to a very thin line and at some point it will have to stop.

My suspension was yesterday for an event which occurred a day before yesterday. If it really was so offensive the report would of have came in the same day or wouldn't it? I could of explained what happened, but as it seems you don't deal with both sides, you just listen to one side of the story. Fair enough, what does it say about the mentality of the community?
Kind regards,
sami

Ezzα · « **Reply #7 on:** December 19, 2011, 11:01:35 am »

I agree that Respect is key!

It doesnt take a genius to work out that the majority of our servers have alot of respect and well maintained by the admins, but this is also contributed by the average age of players playing on those servers. Jailbreak is completely different and lacks alot of respect to the point where alot of players and even admins think its acceptable for flaming to occur just because of your gender. Im quite convinced that if the same words were said to a admin ingame they would be punished immediately so why is this different for the females? Its unfair on the players to be singled our for there gender and i would expect all admins to take note and action on any flaming thats has occured.

Arne · « **Reply #8 on:** December 19, 2011, 02:48:36 pm »

Some wise* man said someday:

You need to give respect, before you can earn it.
Respect comes by feet and leaves by horse.

* The wise man was called Arne btw.

Renan · « **Reply #9 on:** December 19, 2011, 06:12:41 pm »

Another wise man said,

Two wrongs does not make a right.
Replying to a "wrong" using a "wrong" will only get you "wrong" as well as the "wrong" person.

* That wise man was Renan btw.

Turk32 · « **Reply #10 on:** December 19, 2011, 10:38:14 pm »

Treat other people as you want to be treated

Renan · « **Reply #11 on:** December 19, 2011, 11:03:33 pm »

/\\\\ Wise man renan also said that

Turk32 · « **Reply #12 on:** December 20, 2011, 06:38:58 am »

Quote from: Renan on December 19, 2011, 11:03:33 pm

/\\\\ Wise man renan also said that

I really think it was that wise man called Ibrahim(My real name) said that, and it was copied by thousends of people, including Renan

btw, nvm, why can't i delete my post?

Turk32 · « **Reply #13 on:** December 20, 2011, 05:27:42 pm »

Why can't i delete my post?

Sight · « **Reply #14 on:** December 20, 2011, 06:21:18 pm »

because you arent moderator of the forum anymore

?

a wise man said

Hi Renan, you motherfucker

*that wise man was Deniz

** just quoting the first post of renan

/troll

Arne · « **Reply #15 on:** December 20, 2011, 08:07:10 pm »

A wise man has banned Deniz from the forum.
Reason: Swearing in public like a troll.

This wise man, was a troll as well!

Cersei · « **Reply #16 on:** December 20, 2011, 09:49:06 pm »

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWLMnX8F45M\[/youtube]\\"]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWLMnX8F45M

Restecp another wise man

Turk32 · « **Reply #17 on:** December 20, 2011, 10:46:16 pm »

Once the wisest man on earth questioned himself:

"Why are there so many f*cking trolls on Ambrosia?"

that wise man is is me btw,

Sight · « **Reply #18 on:** April 17, 2012, 05:03:52 pm »

*Bump*

since there is 0 respect around here.

Ezzα · « **Reply #19 on:** April 17, 2012, 05:05:09 pm »

Deniz buddy no offence and i know its unusual of you to do something that stupid but changing your name to "neger" on TS3 server when its full isn't exactly full of respect................?