If you are after some figurative explaining, I don't mind to waste my time to tell it.
There has been always a controversy of people to must(that is an enforced-order which has to be done without question) about the: Warningshots. Punishment day resembles a day inclusive of commands quite time wasting and strictly hand-occupied, this also allows ct's to keep the control better. If one of those extreme conditions aren't completed you are gonna be shot. If there aren't many rebels on punishment day, the mood is more relaxed and ct's aren't frankly gonna instant kill people on the day, exception goes for those who are afk or have the commands so mixed up is nerve-braking. There is one moral hidden period when the ct's are just really bad, that t's don't care if they get killed or not. Since they are expecting the round to be over in no less then 4 mins.
On the platform of this report, you got slayed because sami as always never backs away from his redlines (this is traditional for sami, and he is known for it). Going in an debate with him is gonna end often bad, unless he didn't slept well =D. Now, as I was saying he can(and will) immediately slay people without predicting the outcome(mathematically in 5 seconds). Following your bigger issue, he can easily twist the things the way he likes and like it or not; You are owned. One thing to note is, if he didn't had cooperation from you, ethically leading him to slay or admin intervention.
I didn't really understand of who had the title of being the commander since this report is just confusing to my level even, however I justify that his tasks were in the position of provoking but right encirclements. Because there is no rule for ct's gaining an option to instant kill on this day. Therefore being ct has it's consequences and rewards, but ambrosia's composition has many risky ct's. Really weak and verbally inaccurate.
Summarizing, to not risk being slayed or forced to explain why you killed him or etc, open your eyes and coordinate what is the right thing to do with the person your dealing.
Ex: Newcomers have no understanding of the game and are easily dealt with, but oldies and people with high value of verbal confrontations on the other hand might lead to a permanent ban if not treated carefully.
P.S: I'm sorry if I offended(anyone) or proclaimed some animal-type of analyzation so I'm expecting TL;DR
Thanks for understanding.