I remember myself being so not nice liek the banned guy`s brother.
I was at my cousin`s PC, he was about 7 years older than me and I was just 9 years old.
Those where local servers, and I.... insulted and swore. And got banned. I don`t know, what did my cousin do then.
Well, I belive that the banned guy`s brother was the one who swore, not the banned one. So I suppose that he must have an another chance.
But you must use the parental lock, in that case. It must be available somewhere in options.
Pantera.