Well on a second thought, you didn't really cheat. You used admin rights in a complete utter disrespect towards the community and it's members. You also lied. But you didn't cheat. I can agree on a second chance, but you my dear, will have to prove hell of a lot to be given one. Right now, you can't prove anything, since it's your word against your past actions.
I see some people saying what you were like.
I doubt you would ever get admin rights again, let this be a lesson to you. When you have many on going problems in your life, no matter, small or big. You do not go mental, because life isn't fair on you. Who has it?
I was on streets when I was around 7 years old. My mother abused me. I was beaten up for a smallest thing. I had stealing problems, heck I even had **** ton of problems when I was a kid. I had to go to courts against my own mother.
In the end I had my own life when I was 17. My own flat, loving GF. Turned 18, I moved to England. After 3 years of not contacting my mother I regained a relationship with her which is great. I ain't holding grudges. What happened in the past had to happen.
I never wanted to do bad things to others or be nasty because of my childhood. I survived, so can you. We learn from our mistakes or, we are who we are now because of our mistakes. I've made loads of them and I believe I will make tons more, but the point is, no matter how hard it is you suck it up and deal with it. Heck I nearly killed myself, but there was always something keeping me alive.
If I climbed out of one hole, I fell into the next. I've been struggling all my life, but you know what? I don't give a damn, maybe that's why I am not as social person as most, maybe that's why I have problems sometimes to speak whether thats my own language or English. I make my own life, but I am also appreciative about the things other people did for me, heck, even my mother, I wouldn't be the person who I am now if it wasn't for her.
So whatever you have there, remember other people might have 100 times worse. I don't think my childhood was worse, on a degree I think it was even acceptable, but there are thousands of kids today who are either starving to death or being raped, kidnapped, killed, imagine the worst. So it's not that bad.
Just remember, you will make your own life and your own problems once you have the chance to build your own life, but don't forget the closest ones like I did.
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In future think rationally, be honest and don't go doing stupid things which you obviously will regret later, but I suppose you have to learn from your own mistakes to control what you do in the heat of fire.
Support for the unban.