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General Category => General Discussions => Topic started by: Ryan~ on April 28, 2019, 06:30:27 pm
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hello boys, I hope you are fine. I want to share an important part of my life with all of you and I hope you understand,
why do we all go from such situations?
is it necessary to have it as always?
fk, I have been doing it from last 5 years
and another thing is
I passed medical, academic tests like intelligence, confidential, personality .....etc
even physical, my name came at merit and was called for the interview
there were only three hours left before I go for the interview, I was imagining myself in the Army uniform
suddenly my dad came to me (first he started massaging on my head afterwards) he started crying over my head, I became quite nervous at that time that why was he even crying ?
when I asked, he was keep saying the same thing again and again "DONOT LEAVE ME DONOT LEAVE ME , WHAT WILL I DO WITHOUT YOU AND I WILL BECOME ALONE"
he is a cancer patient actually so anything could be happened to him at anytime
I took an hour in taking decision, not for my best actually for my family and I turned off my alarm which I set for the interview........... just one moment changes my whole life and my life is running as usual like that day was never been in my life.... I didn't care about my future but did care about my family.
I hope you understand what I am trying to say, never disobey your parents, what they think for you is the best for you.... Alhamdulillah now I have taken admission in CA and life is going good even better than before.
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100% parents are always right
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@Cracky tell this little boy your story.
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Well to be fair, i joined the army FOR my parents. Military officers parents here get free medical care and services for the rest of their lives and if anything happens to me, they get my pay-grade for as long as they live (and my wife and kids)
And i do live with my parents right now, nothing took me "away" from them. It actually got me closer to them, i do need them now more than ever in my training days (laundry and shit like that)
I don't know about your country but i suppose yours pulls your family apart. It's a good decision for your family, well done there.
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I believe if you are the only son of your father/family, or the oldest one working for them the army could go waste themselves and forget about you definitely.
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@Cracky tell this little boy your story.
Not even worth it Andreas, don't want to make half the server cry
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Well, cant say for sure whether you did the right thing or not, only the time can tell, but definitely can say that its a pretty hard situation to be in. Hope everything turns out well for you.